At least, that’s what some websites would have you believe.  If you’ve gone to the trouble of losing your ex, why would you want to get your ex back?  Well, apparently thousands of people every day want to.  At least based on the number of searches that are being done through search engines these days.  Well, I gotta tell all those people something.  Your ex doesn’t live in a search engine.  And you won’t fin them on the internet either.  Try giving them a call, and ask what you did wrong to lose them in the first place.  If you can honestly fix it, than that’s how you get them back. Otherwise, it’s time to move on.  And, that’s not necessarilly a bad thing either.  It may be difficult, and it may hurt like hell, but in the long run it may be for the best.